Is it selfish to stop radiation to be able to die before my grandma?

I just found out today that my grandmother has cancer in her face. I have been fighting my cancer my whole life to be able to stay alive to spend time with my family. My grandma raised me, and I don't know what I would do when she passes. I want to know if its selfish to stop my radiation in order to have a chance to die before she does?Is it selfish to stop radiation to be able to die before my grandma?
Going to the hospital every day for 30 or 40 days in a row for a few minutes of radiation treatment can be exhausting and depressing but I think it is important that you at least complete the radiation therapy. If your grandmother goes ahead with treatment for her cancer, she may live a long time yet, as may you. Try to find things you enjoy and make the most of your time.
i dont think thats a good goal, but no you cant stop radiation unless you ban chlorean or somethoing by the time whoever you want to die.Is it selfish to stop radiation to be able to die before my grandma?
It's a beautiful sentiment to decide this of course; however, passing on is part of life that everyone must inevitably experience, and it is your grandmother's time, not yours. We all must feel the pain of a lost one eventually, but you have some more time to accomplish things with your life. Live without regrets.
hmm..i think that sounds in a way like suicide..i'm so sorry about your grandma..but i think it would just make her more sad to see you die and then watch her live for like 20 years..and u already died..then you would miss out on family timeIs it selfish to stop radiation to be able to die before my grandma?
If the only reason you want to stop radiation is to not go through the pain of witnessing the death of your grandma than i will venture to say it is UNFAIR. What will your death do to her? Even if you stop your radiation if God plans for her to die before you there is not much you can do to stop it. Your grandma may die thinking that you made it and that could be relief to her to take to her deathbed. If you want to stop radiation consider how you would feel if someone did the same to you. By no means do i judge you I am not in your shoes therefore Do what you will only you will pay for your actions. Therefore it is your decision. Make it wisely for once it is done you can not undo death. May your decision be made on your purpose on earth Not selfishly because of sorrow and emotional pain.